A couple of related questions.
1. Are you different in public and in private with your lover and how?
2. If you are a woman who has to make a lot of decisions in day to day life, is there a relief or comfort in relinquishing control behind closed doors? Do you think of this as submission
3. Are you on Lush because you feel you can't explore the sensual or whorish side of you. What success have you had finding like minded partners on Lush?
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