50 something bicurious men.

I'm a lifelong bisexual man. I married a bisexual woman when I was 22. We're still happily married. But nature and time takes a woman's sex drive from her. And her husband becomes sex starved. I'm on a popular gay app and I frequently meet with a man looking for the same. Many men are on the app who are married to women. They played around when they were younger but married a woman because the culture at the time kind of forced them to. They venture on the app without a picture and are humiliated by the gay men for not having a pic of their face posted. Terrified a man that knows their spouse will see and tell, they simply will not put a face pic on. These guys don't want a divorce. They just want to get laid. Eventually, some of them find another bi man that understands and makes a date. I want to make an app for men of this state. No pressure, no pic required. Pics can be traded privately. I have been hit on dozens of times, all by different men. Why if we could all get together for an orgy, we would fill a ballroom!

I’m not on the apps and didn’t know about this, but another Pride month reminder of how much progress has been made, and how much is at risk if we continue backsliding, but also how much less progress we have made against Bisexual erasure.

Sounds like an unmet need for sure. I happen to know there are a bunch of guys on Lush in their fifties somewhere on the bisexual part of the spectrum, ranging from mostly straight but cocksucking has climbed to the top of their bucket list, to probably mostly gay and in mostly sexless marriages but still love their wives. I thought there were bisexual apps - are those dead, or simply useless?

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I happen to know there are a bunch of guys on Lush in their fifties somewhere on the bisexual part of the spectrum

I feel represented here. Well, except I left my fifties behind a month ago. 😀

I do not know of any bi-specific discreet hookup sites either. My two cock sucking encounters were off personal ad sites like the now defunct Backpages.

Ashley Madison had provision for finding discreet same-sex relationships but it was pretty dead relative to the opposite sex action there. The whole AM operation was really kind of scammy, too, and the security breach kind of killed my interest for good. My days on there were 10-12 years ago and I was still mostly seeking women then, even if I checked out the gay listings out of curiousity. So no idea of the current state. They changed ownership IIRC so could be something completely different from what I remember.

It would not be hard to build a simple one. I could figure it out fairly easily using the software I am familiar with from running another site. Just not something I am interested in trying to run. Would need a lot more security and privacy protection than the site I run now (just a simple discussion board). And a screening mechanism ideally, since you'd want to be able to keep scam and spam off. One of the problems I have observed on personal ad sites and AM is escorts and similar listing as "seekers" but then asking for money once someone connects.

What about bicupid? Seems to have decent reviews. If I were ready to act on my desire for men, I think I’d be on that 3-month membership in a heartbeat.

I'll have to check that out.