It depends.
For people with whom the relationship has been more friendly than anything, I would be very comfortable meeting up for a drink and some conversation
For the women with whom am closest, I would have mixed feelings. On the one hand, it would be nice to meet. On the other, the fear of the relationship being harmed because of potential disappointment or finding that we could get too close would be of great concern.
On balance, I would be very concerned about meeting the women I know best, as odd as that may seem.
For a fun addition to your toy collection, try some Listerine Cool Heat (cinnamon flavoured) breath strips. You should be able to find them in the dental aisle of your pharmacy or grocery store.
1. Take out two breath strips with dry hand.
2. Wet desired naughty spot.
3. Smear in breath strips.
4. Enjoy the cooling sensations!!!
5. Share your feedback, so others will know.
Of course, one can also dissolve in one's mouth and apply to our lover that way too. This would be a very nice surprise for the receiver....
They are available in Canada and the US, but apparently not in the UK (shame!!).