Without asking or prompting your partner what is one thing that you would like them to do or say during sex?
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HoldenMcCrank
2 weeks ago
Straight Male, 58
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It means I am of Scottish decent. I kinda thought it was obvious?
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I would simply tell her how I was going to pleasure her body, from her ears to her toes. Then after great detail I would expect that she would give me the opportunity to prove to her that I was woefully underselling my abilities!
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Guys jack off for many reasons. However, this is my opinion, because we can. Unlike some, most woman a guy gets horny and has a POSITIVE Physical reminder of his arousal. When you are young sometimes the only way to "Make it go away" is to jack off. It starts there and just goes on and on......
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I have always like to masturbate in front of woman. What I would really like to do is masturbate in front of a group of woman. I haven't masturbated in front of another guy since my youth.
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Slowly working on making the back yard an Oasis for my nudity. Right now I have visual barriers for the hot tub and patio. I want to make the entire yard a free to be nude space. Slowly but surely I am getting there.
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I love to he naked. When I was married it wasn't allowed per se. However I am now free of those limiting beliefs.
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Since my divorce 4 years ago I am pleasantly surprised at how many woman find a man masturbating HOT. I am more focused on making my partner cum than my orgasm so I often cum by masturbating after sex. I am amazed at how often this starts a new round of sex / love making because it has re-energized my female partner.
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I live alone now but I had a roommate once. During the interview process I asked her if she was ok with me walking around the house naked, and sunbathing in the nude. She said she didn't have a problem with that. So I would often come home for lunch and layout naked. I would masturbate most days. I know for a fact that she watched me on a few occasions. Once or twice she came through the door to the back yard right after I had climaxed. She never joined me or offered to lend a hand.
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The lady that I am currently dating I would say "Gushes" more then squirts. The first time that it happened I was like that is SO FUCKING AWESOME! And she was surprised by my response. She, or we had left a very large wet spot on the bed. I took it as a Great compliment that our lovemaking had got her that turned on to expel that amount of fluid. Since then there have been many other times that this has happened again. I believe that my acceptance of it and embracing it has allowed her to relax even more and let it happen more and more and more.
For those that are put off by it or say it is annoying....... All I can say is this WTF are your really that STUPID? Really?
For those that are put off by it or say it is annoying....... All I can say is this WTF are your really that STUPID? Really?
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Well I am currently dating a Lady that had a 10+ year relationship with another woman. I was very concerned that my oral skills would be lacking. We have been dating for almost a year now. I know now that I have nothing to worry about when it comes to my sexual abilities. She is amazed at my oral skills and often states that she has never cum like that before, when I go down on her. I know that she isn't giving me lip service (pun intended). So if I had to rate myself it would be a 10.
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It could have been from a friend, parent, sibling or Lover. What was it?
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Simple solution...... Turn down the volume.
Real life solution...... Make sure there is always something in her mouth!
Real life solution...... Make sure there is always something in her mouth!
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I am currently with a lover that doesn't squirt per say but she does gush. The first time we made love at my place we soaked the sheets. I think she may have been embarrassed. When I saw the size of the wet spot on the sheets I told her that I thought that was great and I thanked her. She stated that she has never gotten that wet or put out that much fluid ever. Later on she confessed that she was worried (due to age) if she would be able to get wet enough with out the aid of some type of lubricant. She doesn't do this every time but we are finding the common themes that underlie these events. I actually think it is awesome when a woman is relaxed enough, and emotionally available and physically present to cum and expel excessive liquid.
With all that said, here is the main point. Sex, lover making is to be enjoyed. Enjoy it and be present but don't over think it. Accept how your body responds to each and every lover and love making session. They will be different and accept them as such. And by all means if your lover cannot accept you and your reactions to love making find someone new.
With all that said, here is the main point. Sex, lover making is to be enjoyed. Enjoy it and be present but don't over think it. Accept how your body responds to each and every lover and love making session. They will be different and accept them as such. And by all means if your lover cannot accept you and your reactions to love making find someone new.
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I would like some help with this. I am going to tie up my girl friend. We have done this once before. But this time I want to tie her up in the face down position or Doggy style. My plan is to use some of her toys first to make her cum. Then to eat her till she cums. From there I will use my fingers and thumbs to stimulate her G spot and make her cum and then I was going to give her a good old fashioned fucking and make her cum. My question is there any other way to make a woman cum? I know that I must be missing something. Any and all help appreciated. Merry Christmas
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Ok so here is the story. Just got back from taking a 6 day cruise. Met a beautiful woman and we hit it off. OK this is my story so I am telling it the way I see it. I gave her my contact information and she expressed that she would like to keep in touch after the cruise ended. That was Saturday. I haven't heard from her. Should I just write this off to an "on board romance" or should I try to find her?
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
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Ok so here is the story. Just got back from taking a 6 day cruise. Met a beautiful woman and we hit it off. OK this is my story so I am telling it the way I see it. I gave her my contact information and she expressed that she would like to keep in touch after the cruise ended. That was Saturday. I haven't heard from her. Should I just write this off to an "on board romance" or should I try to find her?
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
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Ok so here is the story. Just got back from taking a 6 day cruise. Met a beautiful woman and we hit it off. OK this is my story so I am telling it the way I see it. I gave her my contact information and she expressed that she would like to keep in touch after the cruise ended. That was Saturday. I haven't heard from her. Should I just write this off to an "on board romance" or should I try to find her?
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
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This is my first time going on a Cruise. First Vacation since my Divorce. I would like to get any feedback tips and or suggestions from those that have gone on a cruise or cruises. I am looking to meet new people and have a great time. This will be an adventure. I would like to think that I might find someone to have an interesting time with but I am not expecting too. What have your experiences been like? What can or should I expect?
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Holden
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Holden
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Cock Rings there are a bunch of different ones. Who has used them? Did they help? Did you like it? Did your female partner enjoy it? Pluses and Minuses let me know what your experience has been. Would you use one again>? Why or why not?
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Holden
Any and all replies appreciated
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Holden
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I recently had the experience of a vibrator being used on me. I was really surprised as to how the vibrations traveled up and through out my body. I now have a better understanding of the sales woman's question about "more power" when we were out buying our toys! I am looking forward to repeating the experience and building upon it
Holden
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When I was younger and way more flexible than I am now I did suck my own cock once. I was able to do this but it was a lot of work. It was not as good as the other blow jobs that I had received from my female partners. Been there done that whats next?
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