Update - 17/05/25 - I know primarily this is a reading site for erotic stories which is why I came here but it didn't take too long to realise this site is much more. Like most people I looked at other profiles, left comments on pictures and messaged a few and have been lucky to make a couple of good friends but what I am noticing with the majority of people I have chatted with is if I'm not the one trying to keep it going then I don't hear from anybody. Maybe it's something about me that most women don't seem to like and there just being kind by not saying anything so from now on I will stop all contact and will only engage with people who want to ( you know who you are). I will happily chat with anyone but I'm not chasing people anymore........not that it matters as I'm sure nobody will read this anyway.