You try, everything once they say, and to save a marriage there is nothing you wont try, I`ve tried everything I can think of that doesn`t break a rule or vow or promise. I`ve offered to "do" other men for him, offered to allow him to "do" other women in front of me or not, even offered to submit and let him watch me do that, to offer him the " complete " cuckold package, Nothing, his reply was, really? seriously? and the last reply on this topic was.. " if your going to step out on me, let it be with a woman at lest then I don`t have to fight for you" so I turned to reading stories, and that path lead me here. now I`m contemplating, " A Mistress" in all the ways that entails, if it happens, who knows where it leads, but one thing I know for sure, 7 mins of "sex" once a month, isn`t working for me, or him. actually A second thought occurred typing this, I received a message telling me, in clear terms, " you dress like that, you kneel like that, you need a real man but your too old, too saggy, and not the best looking woman, maybe try an auction?" so maybe i just need to stick to stories.