Back after an extremely long hiatus!

I'm a submissive-leaning switch with a busy life outside the kink world - between university and my job, I don't have a lot of spare time! I struggle with small-talk, but can chat for hours about the Big Stuff. My everyday interests revolve around science, history, horticulture and dressmaking.

Outside submission, I'm a strong, mouthy individual with liberal opinions. I'm studying towards a degree in a STEM subject, so don't go arguing with me about climate change. I'm driven and I don't like to play games (unless they're board games, that is). I like to cook, sing songs and go camping - ideally all in one weekend!

I do have chronic health conditions which can limit my activities - I don't say this for sympathy, but because I think it's super important that people with disabilities are visible and represented as the gloriously sexual beings we are.

For the record: LBGT+ rights are human rights. TERFs aren't welcome here. Racism, misogyny and misandry, ableism and general intolerance will not be tolerated - so please consider your messages carefully.

~Warning~
I will not be adding you as a friend if we haven't got to know each other first, and please don't whisper to me in the chatrooms without asking first. I have zero qualms about verbally destroying your ego; I will absolutely publicly call you out on your bullshit.

Interests
~*Kink*~
~Ethical Non-Monogamy~
My partner and I have a few friends we meet with for both SFW and NSFW activities. Saying that, we have no desire to meet people as individuals, nor will we meet people who want to cheat with their partners. I am thoroughly attracted to intelligence and kindness, regardless of your genitalia or gender expression. Apparently 2020 was the time to discover a kink for watching my partner fuck other women - y'know, when we can't do anything about it.

We have not met people outside our household for non-monogamous reasons since March 2020, and will not be meeting until the vaccine has been properly rolled out. Stay home, people. We're all frustrated and horny, but the risk of COVID isn't worth the potential orgasms.

Everything we do is Safe, Sane & Consensual - safewords & consent are held as sacred.

~Submission~
I'm owned and collared by my long-term partner. They are my Sir. I very much enjoy being a Brat; my submission is earned, rather than demanded. I enjoy being Little but only during non-sexual activities. Part of my submission is service-orientated - so even when we are not in scene, I do enjoy doing small non-sexual tasks to please my Dominant. Saying that, it's not a 24/7 BDSM relationship.

Sexually, I enjoy impact- and wax-play, both struggle- and snuggle-fucking, choking and lace. I also have both voyeuristic and exhibitionistic streaks - so having photos taken, and taking photos is one of my favourite things to do.

~Domination~
I don't tend to be truly dominant with men (thank you, ingrained societal gender roles!), but I can switch instantly with women. My domination style tends to revolve around sensory play, psychological control and orgasm denial. I like my submissive to slowly give up control, feel helpless, teased and tortured - and then provide an explosive reward for good behaviour. As always, there's consistent after-care which normally looks like cuddles, blankets, pizza and Scandi crime dramas. The aim is for those who submit to me feel loved, safe and cared for, for them to have thoroughly enjoyed the experience and to go home feeling sexually sated. As long as they're happy, I'm happy.

Favorite Books
His Dark Materials, Noughts & Crosses, Lord of the Rings & The Hobbit, Dissolution, Bring Up the Bodies, Mort, Moloka'i.

Favorite Authors
Sam Barone, Tolkein, C J Sansom, Philip Pullman, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett.