John and I were on our way to a family reunion for his family. It was going to be the first time for me to meet anyone from his family. He is black and I am white and we have twin boys which we are taking to meet his family too. John is also 15 years younger than I am. I can tell he is nervous about this. His father will be there and they really haven't gotten along for a number of years. We arrived at the house which is...